When people like something or someone, they have a tendency to gather those things or places to mentally be in that world. They label things or people they like as sources of luck. For example, when I like some place, I can have a good time there.

If you always label as I described, you will feel lonely, because you may not see the person or place you like. You just live in a preconception which you made. It means that you are separated from the world and your true self. It sounds very lonely.

Being around things you like can be a haven depending on the situation. But it cannot save you from loneliness. Liking or disliking is just a judgment. To release yourself from feeling lonely, you need to transcend your judgement to be a part of the world and your true self.

初出：2016年1月11日